- 走近一个陌生人开口第一句，"Hi there! I'm [name]. It's nice to meet you!" 比憋着想一句"完美开场白"更实用——重点是先开口，不是先想好。
- 同行业的活动上，直接问 "What are you working on currently?" 或聊一条行业新闻，比硬聊天气更容易打开真正有用的对话。
- 想礼貌结束对话时，"感谢+去处+留联系方式"三步走（先说这次聊得很好、再说接下来要去哪、最后留下联系方式）比直接说"我先走了"自然得多。
- 学完能应付职场社交场合最常卡住的两个环节：怎么开口跟陌生人搭话，以及怎么不失礼地结束一段对话去认识下一个人。
重点内容
情景对话
*以下对话根据 FluentU 整理的真实寒暄与告别用语改写而成的示范场景，不是逐字对话原文。*
A：Hi there! I'm Wei Ling. It's nice to meet you!
B：Nice to meet you too. This place looks pretty huge — the organizers outdid themselves this time.
A：Definitely. So, what are you working on currently?
B：I've been leading a small team on a data migration project. What about you?
A：I was actually reading about that trend last week — what do you think of it?
B：(15 minutes later) It's been great meeting you! I saw my coworker over there, so I'll go say hello — here's my card if you'd like to stay in touch.
A：Of course, see you around!
A：你好！我是伟玲。很高兴认识你！
B：我也很高兴认识你。这场地布置得真气派——主办方这次挺用心的。
A：确实。那你最近在忙什么项目？
B：我在带一个小团队做数据迁移项目。你呢？
A：我上周刚好看到相关的趋势报道——你怎么看？
B：（15分钟后）很高兴认识你！我看到我同事在那边，我过去打个招呼——这是我的名片，欢迎保持联系。
A：没问题，回头见！
常用句型
| 句型 | 用法 | 例子 |
|---|---|---|
| Hi there! I'm [name]. It's nice to meet you! | 主动开口的标准开场，简单直接，适合第一次接触 | "Hi there! I'm Sarah. It's nice to meet you!" |
| I was reading about [industry news]… What do you think of it? | 用行业话题打开有内容的对话，而不是停在寒暄层面 | "I was reading about the new regulations… What do you think of it?" |
| What are you working on currently? | 比 "What do you do?" 更自然的搭话问题，容易引出具体内容 | "What are you working on currently at your company?" |
| It's been great meeting you! | 结束对话三步走的第一步：先表达感谢/正面评价 | "It's been great meeting you! I really enjoyed our chat." |
| I'll be heading to… / I saw my coworker over there | 结束对话三步走的第二步：给一个自然的离开理由 | "I'll be heading to another session, but great talking to you." |
| Here's my [card/email] if you want to stay in touch | 结束对话三步走的第三步：留下联系方式，把对话延续到之后 | "Here's my email if you want to stay in touch." |
发音 / 语调提示
- 开场的 "Hi there! I'm [name]." 语调要轻快、上扬，听起来自然友好，避免语速太慢、语调平淡显得生硬或紧张。
- 提问 "What are you working on currently?" 时句尾语调要明显上扬，表现出真实的兴趣，而不是走流程式地问一句就算了。
- 结束对话时"三步走"的每一步之间要有自然的停顿，语速稍微放慢，让对方有时间接话或回应，避免一口气说完显得是在找借口逃跑。
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